3 The Resignation Meeting (Resigning Orally)

• Work out what you're going to say and then stick to it. The boss will try and probe you for more information - details that you may not want to give at this stage. Don't be obstructive but simply make it clear that you are submitting an oral resignation.
• Emphasise the positives: you never know when your career will mean that you cross paths with your former employers so don't dwell on the negative aspects of your time at the firm.
• Expect a reaction: unless your boss is expecting you to resign, your decision may come as a surprise. The boss may get emotional or even confrontational in which case, stick to your prepared comments.
• Retain your composure. The boss may by now no longer see you as a team player and may even feel betrayed. Once again, stick to your pre-prepared comments and try not to rise to the challenge. Speak in measured tones and regulate your breathing.
• Always leave the meeting on a good note and be as co-operative as possible. Stress that you will undertake the handover of any uncompleted work to the best of your ability. People remember both the first and last impression you make on them.