I am in a management role with a relatively new employer where much of my work involves acting as an intermediary between colleagues in my office and product specialists located globally.

My revenues are directly tied to my involvement with my offshore counterparts so it is critical that I have direct contact with them. My problem is that I am continually being ‘disintermediated’ - my colleagues and boss continue to approach my offshore counterparts directly without informing me or including me in their conversations.

My contacts are now approaching my office colleagues directly, which is making my job increasingly more difficult. I have raised the issue with the culprits on numerous occasions but have not seen any result. It is highly frustrating. What do I do?
Adam C

Rob Yeung from Management Issues.com says:

If even your boss is approaching your offshore counterparts directly, it's worth having a frank discussion with thems to see what the issue is. If you have relatively recently been hired into the role, then presumably at the time of your hire your boss thought that you would have some value to add.

So it sounds to me as if your boss is the critical person who can help to resolve the situation with you.

Pursue your boss to get a one-to-one meeting in which you can discuss the issue. But before you enter into the meeting, make sure you recall to mind specific examples of what you believe is happening.

Once you have shared your thoughts, get your manager's thoughts on what you could be doing differently. It is possible that there is some gap to do with your skill, knowledge, or even attitude that is making it easier for your colleagues to work directly with each other rather than working through you.

Other than that, I would avoid going into the meeting with preset ideas of what you want your manager and colleagues to do. You are the new person and you need to find ways to fit into the team – not to change and retrain all your colleagues to work in ways that suit you.