How can I stop my bullying boss?
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I have seen my CEO humiliate, belittle, bully and use profanity when addressing her staff. She micro manages and discriminately gives performance increases, does systemic hiring - the list goes on. She alienates and eludes minority staff, so she has no diversity in her office.
The turnover rate is astronomical, and usually links back to her. If you are not liked by her, your life is made a living hell.
This is a fantastic company with a valuable mission, but the leadership leaves a lot to be desired. The employee morale is so brow beaten, that no one is happy – we’re just working under the pretence of intimidation and the need for a payslip. HR has no real role in the company's chain of command and if you file a grievance, your p45 is on the way.
So please, what advice do you have? Everyone here quits to end their misery, but I am a glutton for punishment and refuse to quit. Anita U
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Patricia Soldati from Management Issues.com says:
What you describe is worse than dismal leadership - it's the classic schoolyard bully.
Left unchecked, it's a formula for continued frustration and turnover, and, I sense, a situation that will only be resolved with courageous confrontation by several employees with one or more Board members.
Understand that any action to change this situation involves risk - of revenge, demotion or even firing. If your moral compass is ready to accept this risk, the best approach may be to leverage a ‘safety in numbers’ strategy.
Can you gather several other determined colleagues and together approach an HR and/or Board member with specifics (such as turnover rates, costs of hiring and training, potential law suits, sabotage of the vision of the organization) in hand? Perhaps even threaten to leave en masse?
Short of strong, massive action, you'll get plenty of opportunity to be a "glutton for punishment". Not surprisingly, others have taken the path of least resistance. Yet until there is a stronger, more forceful presence, the playground bully will continue to swagger and browbeat at will.
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